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Be Patient To Your Child: You Need To Learn

Growing up a child may be your biggest challenge in your life. As you know, you are doing a great project. You are helping an unconscious creature to become a "human" with the logical intelligence and social communication and so on. During the progress, you will enjoy the happiness while suffering the disappointment and distress. First of all, the cry of the baby may depress you into the hell already. Don't talk about teaching alphabet or coloring.

Don't think it is a piece of cake to grow up your child. It is really not easy. Because we are not just caring about the physical growth of the child, we also caring about the intelligent development. If you are the inattentive, lazy and competitive portents, you may receive many complaints or advices from schools or doctors for your child's development status. Most of the problem is not because of your child, it is because of you. You are lazy or impatient to teach your child many things in the world he/she is supposed to know.

Let's talk about the patience first. I really believe it is the first thing you must have when you are grow up a child. If not, you may make your life messy and difficult, at the same time you may make your child development delayed.

Let's see what a mad dad will do when he loses his temper in parenting a baby. He may talk to the baby loudly, or change the diaper rudely, or throw the toys all over the room angrily, and finally forget to feed the baby milk. At the end, the baby is keeping crying. When your two-year old son just plays with his toy and doesn't answer your question "what is your name", even you ask for many times, you might be angry and yell at him. Your son may look at you innocently or cry immediately. But problem has not been solved. If you are experiencing the same as what I did before, please control your temper and find the proper ways to the problems.

The bad outcome will follow the bad temper or anger during teaching your child. Normally, you will see the unhappy and the opposite result as what you want. For example, you can't expect a 3-year old boy can feed himself fast without playing his toys by just shouting to him to feed him faster. You can't expect your 2-year daughter will pick up all the toys after making the whole room messy by just asking her to do that angrily.

Hurry up to change your mindset and take care of your child with more patience. Patience will help you put yourself out of the stress and teach your child more effectively. Review your awful experience because of you anger and bad patience. Do smartly with patience. You will enjoy more happiness with more patience.

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