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Children who have never attended preschool before can find the experience very distressing at first. Kids are very routine-oriented by nature, and interrupting their normal way of doing things by introducing strange new experiences can cause some emotional and even physical setbacks. There are ways that parents can help reduce their kids' anxiety to help them to adjust to preschool. Why the Anxiety? An anxious child may begin hiding, crying, become physically violent, or even regress in their toilet training. These are all manifestations of their fear, which is summed up in two problems: separation anxiety and fear of the unknown. The two are closely linked, but are not the same. Separation anxiety occurs when the child is afraid to let mom or dad go, because they do not know if they will ever see them again. Preschool-age children are at the developmental stage where they recognize the impermanence of things, and they fear change, and the unknown, for that reason. They ...

When my children starting school for the first time, I was both excited and sad at the same time. My babies were growing up and heading into the big wide world without me. How would they cope?.Will they make friends?. These were only a few of the millions of thoughts running through my head. There are a few things you can do to help both yourself and your child transition from being at home to being at school. Try not to make too big a deal about it, as this may stress your child even further. Here are a few tips which may help 1) Find some books that cover the subject of "My First School Day". Read them to your child and encourage any questions they may have. 2) Have trial separations from your child. If you child has been glued at your hip since birth, watching mum leave them can be quite traumatic for any child. Start leaving your child at Gran's house for a few hours, or a friends, or perhaps day care. Work up to a whole day so your child get fam...